Monthly Archives: July 2010

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide by John Gottman

According to most relationship books, the key to a solid marriage is communication, communication, communication. Phooey, says John Gottman, Ph.D., author of the much-lauded Why Marriages Succeed or Fail. There’s much more to a solid, “emotionally intelligent” marriage than sharing … Continue reading

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Building a Love that Lasts: The Seven Surprising Secrets of Successful Marriage by Charles and Elizabeth Schmitz

In this best-selling book, America’s #1 love and marriage experts Drs. Charles D. and Elizabeth A. Schmitz show what it takes to create and sustain a long-term loving marriage. Step-by-step they reveal their “Seven Surprising Secrets of Successful Marriage” that … Continue reading

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How To Save Your Marriage From An Affair: Seven Steps To Rebuilding A Broken Trust by Ronnie Edell

A guide by the author of The Sexually Satisfied Woman explains why affairs happen, offers preventative advice, and presents a seven-step “reconstructive” program for couples who are willing to recommit to one another. Dr. Edell holds a Ph.D. in Leadership … Continue reading

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I Don’t Want a Divorce: A 90 Day Guide to Saving Your Marriage by David Clarke

What could be good about a bad marriage? The good news is, you can get beyond that old marriage and its destructive habits, and build a brand-new one with the same spouse. And you can do it in just 90 … Continue reading

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Money and Marriage Two: A Narrative Guide to Financial, Estate, and Retirement Planning in a Second Marriage by Jon Fitzpatrick

Money and Marriage Two: A Narrative Guide to Financial, Estate, and Retirement Planning in a Second Marriage is about law, money, and marriage. Each of us wants love and financial security, but there can be conflicting interests in a second … Continue reading

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Estate Planning for Blended Families: Providing for Your Spouse & Children in a Second Marriage

In almost half of all stepfamilies, each parent brings one or more children to a new marriage and while other books give general information about wills, trusts, and taxes, many of them may not apply to couples in second marriages. … Continue reading

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The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: A 25 Year Landmark Study

Twenty-five years ago, Judith Wallerstein began talking to a group of 131 children whose parents were all going through a divorce. She asked them to tell her about the intimate details of their lives, which they did with remarkable candor. … Continue reading

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Divorce and Money – How to Make the Best Financial Decisions During Divorce

In her book, Divorce and Money: How to Make the Best Financial Decisions During Divorce, author Violet P. Woodhouse outlines important strategies for protecting your finances during divorce. Currently in its ninth edition, Ms. Woodhouse’s book has been hailed by … Continue reading

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Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family

About half of all marriages in the United States end in divorce, and most of these divorces result in unnecessary collateral damage. Now there is a better way. In Collaborative Divorce, Pauline Tesler and Peggy Thompson, two pioneers in the … Continue reading

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Why Can’t You Read My Mind?

Bernstein, a psychologist specializing in couples and family therapy, and Magee (The Power of Positive Confrontation) offer partners a way to renew the spark in their relationships in this succinct self-help guide. They claim that one of the most significant … Continue reading

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Taking Space: How to Use Separation to Explore the Future of Your Relationship

With the high rate of divorce and breakups, marriage and family experts point to the fact that people don’t learn from the mistakes of a failed relationship and assume the next relationship will be better, making little effort to fix … Continue reading

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Fighting for your marriage

“A divorce prevention society should be formed to place a copy of this book in every hotel room in Niagara Falls-scratch that, every hotel room in this country. Every wife or husband struggling to say married, especially happily married, should … Continue reading

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Divorce Busting: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again

Generic marriage-saving advice has no place in this book. Instead you will find a step-by-step, nuts-and-bolts approach to getting unstuck and making your marriage loving again. In this ground-breaking book, Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW gives straightforward, effective advice on how couples … Continue reading

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Eugene and Dolores postmarital agreement

From The American Law Institute, Principles of the Law of Family Dissolution: Analysis and Recommendations When Eugene and Dolores marry, they are both employed with comparable incomes, and have no children. Thirteen years later, they have two children, ages seven … Continue reading

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Case Study: Financial planning with a marital mediator

David works very hard at the VA hospital, where he earns $80,000 per year as an administrator. Stacey works as a real estate agent and has sporadic income ranging from $45,000 – $65,000 a year. They have two high school … Continue reading

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How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage

Until now, couples facing the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in an unhappy marriage had three options: individual or couples therapy, separation, or divorce. Should I Stay or Go? provides these couples with a fourth option–the Controlled … Continue reading

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Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On

Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful hits you like an earthquake. Long after the first jolt, emotional aftershocks can make it difficult to be there for your family, manage your daily life, and think clearly about your options. Whether … Continue reading

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Case Study: Risk versus security and marriage mediation

Brian has always been the entrepreneurial type. During their 25 year marriage, he has engaged in a number of business ventures, and his income has fluctuated greatly. He does not get nervous about borrowing money to live on when times … Continue reading

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Case Study: Early marriage struggles and marital mediation

Mark and Jane got married eight years ago. They have two young children. Their initial love and attraction has turned into constant bickering and argument. They now realize how different they are from each other. Every interchange seems to be … Continue reading

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Case Study: A marriage affair and mediation

John has a job that requires him to travel quite a bit. Diane has a good job at home, and their children are in high school. John recently admitted to Diane that he had slept with several women during his … Continue reading

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